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"This song is talking to the person you haven't even met yet. Maybe they're rolling around in the hay with someone else, but they're not as good as you're gonna be. You just have to wait your turn. He's out there, she's out there. They're just learning what to contrast you against."






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Goodbye 2012.}
Monday, December 31, 2012 | 8:59 PM | 0Comment

2012. Interesting year, wasn't it? Brought me some changes, and some challenges. But don't they all?

Looking back on this year, there are some things that happened I'm very proud of. (Getting out of AP Literature alive, deciding on giving myself a very much needed break after HS before starting College, graduating High School in one piece, making a bank account, getting out of our old house, voting for the first time.)

There's also some things that happened that I'm still uneasy about, and things that sadden me a little. (Our family friend Uncle passing away, me finishing online school with no friends from that program, an Internet friend of mine passing away, my dad's one day incarceration in August, not being able to find a job.)

As I get older, I've tended to notice the negative things more. Why is that? I know things will never be perfect, they can't be. That's just how life is. But when I was a kid, I didn't notice as much. Or they didn't bother me as much. Why has that changed?

It shouldn't have to be that way. Really, it shouldn't. Is it really so hard to just be happy?

If I spend my present being sad, all I'll have to look back on is sadness. Sometimes, yeah, it can't be helped. Everyone has their off days. But what about when there's no reason to be sad? When life isn't flawless down to the last detail, but the little flaws are tolerable because there's all sorts of other wonderful things there that shouldn't be taken for granted?

In 2013, I pledge to be happy. Not every day, not every second of the day. But I will find one thing, just one, that will make me happy. Once a day. I'll make sure to laugh once a day, too.

Because those little things, like happiness, and health, and being able to laugh and listen to beautiful music and watch a wonderful movie and tell someone how much you care about them might be taken away in an instant. I'll try not to take anything for granted, because when you think about it--I mean really, truly, think about it--everything is a gift. I'll try to recognize that this year, and to hold everything I have dear.

I genuinely hope you guys will do the same.

Hello 2013. Please be good to me.

xo Hopeless Romantic

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Happy Holidays!}
Sunday, December 30, 2012 | 8:55 PM | 0Comment

Really quick, sort of obligatory entry here, sorry guys. I know I've been off of here for a good month, but I promise I'll give a proper update on things soon! I have a lot to talk about.

I hope that all of you had an amazing holiday, and I wish you all a fabulous and bombastic 2013! (Ahahaha, I said bombastic. Snickering at myself.) I love you all!

xo Hopeless Romantic 

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